URayya Elias Unobangela wokufa: Wafa njani iqabane likaElizabeth Gilbert?

URayya Elias, iqabane lika Yitya, Thandaza, Thanda Umbhali u-Elizabeth Gilbert, usweleke emva kwedabi elinomhlaza. U-Elias wafumanisa ukuba unomhlaza wepancreatic kunye nesibindi entwasahlobo ka-2016, ngokwePhephancwadi laBantu .

Kwakuloo nyaka, uGilbert wabhengeza ukuba yena nomyeni wakhe, UJose Nunes , yahlukene. Wenza isibhengezo kwi Iposi kuFacebook , Ukwazisa abalandeli bakhe ukuba yena noNunes babehamba ngeendlela ezahlukileyo ngoxolo.

Ndohlukana nendoda uninzi lwenu olwaziyo njengo'Felipe '- indoda endathandana nayo ekupheleni kohambo lwe-EAT PRAY LOVE. Ebengumlingane wam othandekayo ngaphezu kweminyaka eli-12, kwaye ibe yiminyaka emnandi. Ukwahlukana kwethu kuxolo kakhulu. Izizathu zethu zezobuqu, wabhala ngokuyinxenye.

Kwiinyanga ezimbini kamva, uGilbert uthathe kuFacebook kwakhona Ukwabelana ngeendaba zokuba uwile. Uthathe ixesha ukwazisa iqabane lakhe, u-Rayya Elias, kwihlabathi, kwaye waveza noxilongo lomhlaza ka-Elias.

Nantsi indawo esimi kuyo ngoku: Mna noRayya sikunye. Ndiyamthanda, naye uyandithanda. Ndihamba kolu hambo lomhlaza kunye naye, hayi kuphela njengomhlobo wakhe, kodwa njengeqabane lakhe. Ndikho kanye apho kufuneka ndibekhona-indawo ekuphela kwayo endinokuba kuyo, funda inxenye yeposi ende. UGilbert utyhile ukuba urhoxisile yonke into kwishedyuli yakhe ukuze abe secaleni kukaElias ngelo xesha linzima. Iposi lafumana ukuthandwa okungaphezulu kwama-29,000 kwaye amagqabantshintshi ashiywe ngabalandeli bakaGilbert ayeshushu kwaye ayakha.

NgoLwesine, nge-4 kaJanuwari, uGilbert uthathe imithombo yeendaba ezentlalo kwakhona, ngeli xesha esabelana ngeendaba ezibi zokuba uElias usweleke.

Wayeluthando lwam, intliziyo yam, umhlobo wam osenyongweni, utitshala wam, umvukeli wam, ingelosi yam, umkhuseli wam, umceli-mngeni wam, iqabane lam, imyuziyam yam, iwizard yam, ukumangaliswa kwam, isipho sam, i-comet yam, umkhululi wam, ilitye lam inkwenkwezi, ukungabinantsebenziswano kwaphela, undwendwe lwam lwelinye ilizwe, indawo yam yokomoya, kunye nosana lwam. Ndikuthanda kakhulu, Rayya. Ndiyabulela ngokundivumela ndihambe nawe ukuya esiphelweni somlambo. Kube lelona wonga libalaseleyo ebomini bam. Ndingakuxelela ukuba uphumle ngoxolo, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba uhlala ufumana uxolo. Ngamana ungaphumla yimincili. Ndiza kuhlala ndikuthanda, wabhala.

NgoJuni 2017, esi sibini sabhiyozela uthando lwaso kumsitho ongekho semthethweni.

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Bathandekayo: Kunyaka ophelileyo, mna noRayya Elias sikhe safumana iintsuku ezinzima kakhulu kunye - kodwa hayi namhlanje. Namhlanje belixabisekile kwaye lifezekile. Umsitho olula kwaye uzenzekele wothando, ujikelezwe zimbinana zabahlobo kunye nosapho. Umnyhadala wethu wawungekho nto ibophelelayo ngokusemthethweni (akukho sidingo sokwazisa abasemagunyeni, bantu!)… Umbhiyozo nje ozolileyo nobucala wento esele sazi ukuba iyinyani: Singabomnye nomnye. Ezona ntsuku zinzima zizayo. Ayenzi lula apha. Ukugula kwakhe kubi. Kodwa uthando lwethu lomelele. Siza kuhamba kunye kangangoko sinako ukuya kunye. Emva koko, konke kuya kuguqukela kuThixo. Yenza ubuhle ngayo yonke imihla oyinikwayo, Phambili, i-LG (Kwaye enkosi, @bindleandkeep, ngokufaka isuti kwityuti ka @ rayyaelias, nangokuyizisa ngesandla izolo. Wayekhangeleka emhle. Enkosi ngobabalo, inkathalo, nemfesane nina ningabantu abalungileyo.)

Iposi ekwabelwana ngalo ngu U-Elizabeth Gilbert (@elizabeth_gilbert_writer) nge-6 kaJuni 2017 ngo-2: 17 pm PDT